Snakeskin
Friendships are like snakeskins
Sometimes they must be shed
For the growth of what’s within
And a happier life be led
The protection given past
The feeling of being whole
May not forever last
Can squeeze upon the soul
No malice for the old friends
Or what they kindly gave
Our paths have different ends
Till we meet beyond the grave
But you must see, as I do
Closeness no longer there
Our lives diverge, as lives do
And less we seem to care
No failure or blame to place
Both just being who we are
It has been a gift of grace
To walk with you this far
Now, your leave, I give to you
With hope for your life blessed
If, to myself, I must be true
Then this is what is best
Both our lives carry a toll
No need for the extra weight
The unburdening of my role
Just a product of my fate
I’ve always felt (and probably always will feel) a sense of guilt when I choose to walk away from a friendship that I’ve either outgrown or which I’ve discovered does me more harm than good. Your words helped me see that sometimes, it’s just the natural occurrence that comes as time passes and we change/grow. Thank you for helpful insight!
When your actions are at the behest of your physical, metal, and spiritual well-being, there is no need for feeling guilty. We are first and foremost stewards of our own lives. Love you, sis!
it’s such a challenging process, and one that occurs quite naturally over time, and if we are open to seeing it as it is, as it was, it is easier to see that it’s had its place and it may no longer serves the two of you in the way it once did.
Well put, Beth! Growth happens on many different levels!
Very well said, and another insightful reminder!
Thank you, Kristian! Our lives always need a little housecleaning. Much love to you both!
I can just picture a fair maiden standing on a balcony reciting these words to her ex-lover…
Thanks, Jim! That would seem a perfect setting for the tone of the poem. I appreciate your constant support!
And I admire your amazing poetic skills!
Beautiful poem Brad! After reading this I thought of a child seeing a snakeskin, thinking it is a snake. And how some people leave friendships but one does not notice. They see the snake…not realizing it is skin….just food for thought.
I love your view on this. And thank you for all your support!
Very well said and with much truth in those precise and perfectly placed words my friend.
Thank you, my friend! You are too kind!
My pleasure my friend!