Looking Back
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If given some say by would be fate
Change things in my life, a second chance
An opportunity to skew my current state
And in some small way my life enhance
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If I could rewind to those biggest choices
Where I could choose left instead of right
If I had listened to the other head voices
Or just seen my world in a truer light
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If I had decided to stay instead of run
Or built a bridge in place of a wall
When it was finally all said and done
Would it really have mattered at all
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If I had decided to risk when I faced a fear
Or saved the love I so poorly spent
If each branch on my forward path more clear
Would it have changed the direction I went
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Or would I do everything just the same
Suffering over each pain and great fall
Not kismet or destiny will bear the blame
For in my own life I am master of all
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Would changing the past be benefit
Would it have made me some better man
Or must I accept history and be fine with it
That not everything went according to plan
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An easier road may have been sought
But would it change who I would be
I can accept what my failures bought
For they made the person that is me
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I would not want to change a moment
For when all added they create a sum
Each a critical and vital component
To the man that I have become
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So true! All our mistakes and trials have helped to form who we are. Well written!
Thank you!
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yes, accept it all, it’s you –
Thanks Beth!
No man can change the course of history…we are and accept what we’ve become, it’s all written in the stars my friend…but I enjoyed greatly this poem. All the best!
Thank you brother!
You’re very welcome my brother!
When you are able to accept who you are with contentment, you realize that even the smallest change in your history would change who you have become. I seldom think now of “if only I had” or “I wish this did/didn’t happen” because of the recognition that it had to be as it was in order to build what is. Well worded!
Thank you, sis! I love how you turned out!
I think we all have these “what if” moments, and it seems to be a sign of a life well-lived if you can you would not have changed anything…
I think there are reasons we have the experiences we do. We may not understand those reasons, but the impact of the experience is never lessened.
and since we can’t do anything about the past, it’s important to just keep moving forward…
I wouldn’t change a thing about you, Brad!
You are too kind, Kristian! I am palatable in small doses.
It doesn’t hurt to imagine, but sometimes we create an illusion in our mind that never existed.
Very true, Pete! Speculation may be something best left to the weather forecasters.
I have had these same thoughts many times and I also always come to the same conclusion. I am who I am because of these experiences and I too, would change nothing. God made or helped to mold the person I am. Love and warm hugs Brad, Jonikins ❤️🤗❤️🥰
Accepting ourselves is more important than being accepted by others. Thanks pretty lady!
I found your comments in gmail – You are so right Brad, I am the one that has to look at myself in the mirror and I judge myself harshly, so yes, I have to do what feels right to me and follows the code of ethics I have for myself which is pretty steep these days. Sending my love, thank you for the thoughtful comment. Jonikens
Wow, beautifuly written. If i could rewind those biggest choices.. ❤️🥰
Thank you, Deborah!
You’re welcome.
Well written, thanks for sharing….
Thank you!
you’re welcome ,